Musings: 1/8/2021

 is it too late for a year end recap?

I want to do one because 2020 was a huge year for me 

but I also don't feel like putting it together

...

I may circle back around

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Musings: 12/20/2020

 I have complete confidence in myself and my abilities

people pleasing is out of the door

I've watched others allow fear to hold them back from what they really wanted,

and I won't make that same mistake

pros vs cons

the difference between givers and takers is the latter never stop/ satisfied

I'd rather you show me than tell me

forever grateful for anyone that goes out of their way to make me smile

seeing your not so flattering traits reflected back to you in the form of another is very eye opening 

to say the least

this year far exceeded my expectations in many ways

a one woman show and I'm killing it

the story's not over yet

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big fine on a wednesday 

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Musings: 10/28/2020

 I remember when I first started this blog...

I kept it to myself

for years.

I used it as an outlet,

a space to post things that interested and inspired me.

a place to yell out into the darkness if you will,

unsure and unbothered by if anyone was to hear. 

I felt that if someone stumbled upon my little slice of the internet it was for a reason 

something brought them here and I was okay with that.

It felt intimate, although I was posting freely onto the world wide web.

I only mentioned it to a select few that knew me.

I feel over the years I have lost the excitement to post

possibly due to life's happenings

living, loving

falling in and falling out

losing interest, regaining and losing it again

I also think that I started to think too much into things

my musings became fewer 

people would question posts

or mention that they checked out my blog

which always felt a little weird 

because I don't always like to feel seen.

it can feel like having someone read your journal and then pick apart the entries

but anyway

I say all of that to say

simply,

I miss writing.

I miss releasing and posting fun things and not overthinking it so much

so here's to more of the former and less of the latter.

Summer Wind Down

finding little pockets of joy in each day

 

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