Everything in life is a trade-off.
(By definition, a technique of reducing or forgoing one or more desirable outcomes in exchange for increasing or obtaining other desirable outcomes in order to maximize the total return or effectiveness under given circumstances.)
Think about it.
Trade that heartbreak you went through for strength and wisdom gained.
Hardwork for the results/ experience received from it.
Sacrificing weekends for a paycheck to spend on enjoyable things in the future.
The sooner you realize this the better.